This was the big one. Mallory entered a new bracket this year, with the rest of the 30 year olds. I decided to go big for it. For me, it's thrilling to concoct secret plans and surprises for people. I have quite a record for doing these throughout our marriage. Even our engagement took Mal by surprise, dropping 'The Question' two days before Valentines day. So to start off, I took Madie and Finn on camping trips for their birthdays this year. I planned it with them, and we did whatever they wanted, wherever they wanted. Mal mentioned how she would love to do that for her birthday (multiple times). It got me thinking about how I could make that happen. It's challenging to do things like that in Maine, because we don't have a ton of family around to watch the kids. In fact, Mallory and I have never gone on an over-nighter alone together since we have had kids. Almost our entire marriage.
I made reservations for a 'family' camping trip on Mallory's birthday in Baxter. I tried to sell it as a fun family excursion for her birthday, which she wasn't too hot on. But, being the trooper she is, she felt she could play along for the time being. In the background, I worked out the details with Alexa to come and watch the kids for Mallory's birthday. Alexa graciously took two days off to come and manage the house while we went north. A month leading up to Mal's birthday, she was jokingly telling friends/family about this fun birthday (sarcasm) that I had planned for her with the whole family up in Baxter. Specifically, this was at Grammy Haskins house when Levi and Raquel were visiting. Alexa (who was already in the plans at this point), jokingly told Mal, "So, I guess I'll see you around your birthday?" Mallory laughed and dove into our plans for our trip. Alexa and I smiled at each other, rubbing our hands together in an evil, plotting sort of way.
Two weeks before Mallory's birthday, the kids were pretty wound up. They were stressing both of us out, but Mal was taking the brunt of it at home. She seemed like she was getting anxious, especially since it had been a couple of weeks since we had a date and this looming 'family' trip coming on her birthday. A week before her birthday, I broke. We were sitting on the couch on a Monday evening, and I spilled the beans. I really didn't want to, but I felt it would make the week go by much smoother with a light at the end of the tunnel. When I told her, her eyes lit up. That was almost as good as what I imagined her face looking like when I called a last-minute audible for our trip on Friday. But the week was much improved, and it was fun planning some details with her leading up to it.
On our way up to Baxter, we stopped by this new Cuban restaurant, Cubita Libre. Dude...that was amazing. Finally, someone decided to invest in a decent latin food restaurant in the Bangor area! It's been killing me not to have any. Now we have a refuge for the storm with our new favorite restaurant in Bangor. We got to the Roaring Brook campground, had a peaceful campfire, and retired to bed at a decent time. After we laid in bed for a few minutes, Mal noticed a flickering of light toward our campfire. She jumped up to unzip the tent and look out the window to see our campfire had fired itself up again. I was totally passed out, but she took care of it, got back into the tent, and sat there staring up at the tent ceiling for the next four hours before she could fall asleep. Not quite how I imagined our first night away from the kids, ever. I was thinking more, sleep at 10, up at 8 sort of thing. No interruptions, not screaming. Just the silence of sleeping in Baxter. Not the case!
I woke up early, got the fire going, and we had a nice blueberry cobbler for breakfast, along with sausage and yogurt. Breakfast of champions. We packed up camp, and started hiking toward Chimney Pond. The colors were brilliant along Roaring Brook, and the views as we approached Katahdin were amazing. It loomed over us for about half the hike. I hadn't been on that side of Katahdin before. I had always summited from the back side. This way was very impressive, and offered many views. We didn't catch much wildlife, unfortunately. The Ranger mentioned the moose population took quite a hit over the last few years. But it was such a fun little adventure. Now that we've been able to sneak away for a night, I'm hooked. We definitely need to do this more.
Oh yeah. On the way back home from Baxter, we stopped by Cubita Libre for round two. So good.